if 2020 was your first “bad year,” have a seat and let’s pour a cup of tea for a chat.
To be fair, I may not be the person you need to talk to, seein’ as I usually call it a win if I can get 12 straight HOURS of a good time... much less 12 straight MONTHS.
That seems to cast me as a tragic character in some’s eyes...
good thing their reflection is not not my reality.
so here’s what:
a) life just sucks sometimes... you havin’ a bad time does not mean you are a loser
-also if your dreams aren’t comin’ true, that’s okay... dreams take a while sometimes.
b) just because your work isn’t glamorous doesn’t mean it’s not important.
c) find your own happy
d) please take care of yourself- eat a good meal, go for a walk, listen to good music, drink water
e) feel what you feel: this term “new normal” strips us of our need to grieve
f) watch our for gaslighters- you.are.not.crazy.
for the love of 2020, please take care of yourself.
lower your expectations.
find joy in the light as it pours through the trees.
and please tell the people you love that you love them.
